Vanilla Sex Isn’t Just a Step on the Way to Kinky Sex

And I don’t feel shame for having kinks

“I want to get to know a woman, every inch of her body, as I get to know my guitars. I want to know what makes her tick, I want to make her cum over and over until I know how to do it. I want to get really good at vanilla sex, THEN we can venture into kinky sex.”