Wait, You Want to Pay Me How Much to Step on Your Balls?
What I learned from an offer to sexually ‘torture’ someone for money
Greetings! I’m a 29-year-old man with a huge foot and ballbusting fetish, looking for testicle trampling torture, and was wondering if you’d be interested in such activities? I’m not asking anything free here, and am, of course, willing to pay.
—CBT-Toy
Personally, I only like pain when I like the person administering it.
I’ve written about pain before and its connection to pleasure in a sexual context. As someone, somewhere on the masochistic scale, it’s a concept I sympathize with. Our pain and pleasure centers are intrinsically connected after all.
Pain can be highly erotic and sensual, which is true for me when the pain makes sense; when it’s part of something bigger.
By that, I mean that pain for the sake of pain doesn’t do it for me. It won’t produce the same effect if, let’s say I was to ask my neighbor to come over and give me a spanking. In that case, it would just be painful—and not to mention, terribly awkward!
My feelings around humiliation are similar: An element of it can be arousing, but in the end, I want to feel honored…
