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What I’ve Learned Watching Men Masturbate for a Living

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Watching men pleasure themselves is a big part of my job as a sex worker, and yet it can feel a little like being invited to a party but not partaking in any of the fun.

But as a job, this is often my role — to just observe.

When I do FemDom sessions, especially cam sessions, this is so often all men want from me: to simply masturbate while I…




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