Why I Am Such a Good Lover
And what you need to know in order to become one
A sex writer, among other things, I spend a fair bit of time crafting advice on how to do various things better in bed. Lately, for example, I’ve been working on a commissioned two-part guide to giving better blowjobs.
As I write these, I often feel conflicted, a concern I share openly with my readers. See, the ability to engage in fulfilling, or even mindblowing sex with another person—to be a so-called “good lover”—is only, to a small degree, about specific moves.
Sure, the moves matter too.
But they’re worthless in their own right.
Nevertheless, I genuinely believe in my mission to educate based on my experience and observations. Not only am I passionate about the importance of talking candidly about sex, especially as women, but I trust that I have something of value to add to the discourse.
Why?
Because I think I’m such “a great lover”?
No!
And, also, yes… Sort of…
But, let’s talk about that.
