Why Men Who Master Sexual Self-Restraint Are So Irresistible

Delay gratification to blow her mind—and double the reward

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Feb 10 · 8 min read
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Why wait?

It intensifies orgasms

Self-control is sexy—and it speaks volumes of your character

It turns (expected) gender roles on their heads

It can open up for some kinky role-play

It gives time and space to focus on her pleasure

It might make you irresistible to her

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Ena Dahl

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Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

Sexography

Conversations about sex from all around the world

Ena Dahl

Written by

Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

Sexography

Conversations about sex from all around the world

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