Why Not Having Sex for Nine Months Led Me to My Best Sexual Experience Ever

Spoiler alert: I knew what I wanted

Photo by Jakob Owens on Unsplash

I will always remember the day I decided to break my nine month sex ban.

I was in a hostel in Brighton in the UK. I was staying there for a week to do an acting course. I’d just come back from seven weeks of solo-travel and a three month charity…