You Don’t Have to Suck in the Sack! Try These Five Expert Tips to Improve As a Lover
Your partner will definitely thank you
Okay, that title is a bit too harsh. Of course you don’t really suck in the sack. After all, what is considered good lovemaking is highly subjective and one partner’s trash is another partner’s treasure. But that doesn’t mean there isn’t room for improvement and sex skills that we can all benefit from learning. In order to find out how to boost our performance in bed, I spoke to three sex and relationship experts and the following are the insights they gave me.
“Remove your ego from the occasion and ask your partner to detail what they want, how they want it, and what they do not want.” — Mia Sabat
Go Adolescent
We all want to think that we’re skilled when it comes to what we’re doing in bed, so admitting that we have a lot more to learn can make us feel uncomfortable. After all, projecting confidence is sexy. But in order to take our skills to the next level, it’s important to accept that we don’t know everything and, if we have a supportive partner, we can give ourselves the permission to, as Lovehoney sex and relationship expert Dr. Megan Fleming, PhD…
