1 Week After I Joined A Sex Group

It Gave Me Experiences I Never Dreamed Of!

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I write about sex. A lot! I’ve started writing on Medium, and am off to a dream start. I’m really overwhelmed by the number of people who are really interested in what I write. It’s motivating to see you, guys, and girls, wanting me to write more. That’s what drives me, above anything else!

Often it felt that I’m saying a lot and would like to dive deeper. I joined a few groups and tribes with the thought of meeting many more people. And more than that, actually having conversations about their experiences in life and learning from them.

So, here are just a few things I found out in my first week being a member of several sex groups.

1. There are way more women than I would have guessed. The ratio is skewed but it is so much better than I ever had imagined.
2. I learned how to start conversations about sex. It’s not about just getting ready with a list of questions and throwing them at the other person.
3. While it’s not okay to start a conversation with asking for pictures or suggesting sexting on video chat platforms, there certainly are people who’re willing to have a great time with you, being as vulnerable as you are.
4. We know nothing about SEX. We need to unlearn what we’ve come across on porn sites. We need to learn how to make sex much more pleasurable for us, and for our partners.
5. Sex is so much more than just a physical activity. It’s hard to see that the emotional facet of sex is ignored my so many of us.

After this I think I know that these are not just my feelings. A lot of us share these. And more essentially, a huge number of women feel this. Women are often left out of these.

I wish to create a community of people. Not an adult group just to share content. Not a place being about just asking for pictures and videos.

I wish to create a community where people share their sexual and non-sexual experiences in life. A community that realizes that sex is not just taking pleasure. It is much more about giving pleasure.

I wish that it is a safe place for us, men and women, to come together, and help each other have better lives without intruding in their lives.

I want you to share with me, and then with a large number of people, you have to offer. We’ll not disappoint anyone here. Experiences, stories, learnings, advice. I want that.

I hope you’ll want that too!

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