I Want You To Know How To Go Slow
What’s The Rush, People?
I always think I’ve said it a hell of a lot of times, but I still think I should say it again. Sex is about what you make your partner feel, and so much less about how you feel. That simple practice solves so much of our problems related to sex, both for men and women.
For years, guys have been told to just go faster and harder. Porn has played a major role in it too. Sex is not a race to the end. It must be an act, in which each scene is enjoyed by both participants, and not just the climax (often, for just one xD).
I want you to know this for sure. I don’t always want you to just jump in and start hard and fast. I don’t wish it to start with a bang. I want you to start with small steps. I want it to end with a bang for both of us. I want you to enjoy and take pleasure from it. That will mean an even greater pleasure for me.
This is how I want you to be slow and steady, so we both win.
I want you to make me start thinking about sex before sex. I want to know that we’re both in the mood for having a great time. I want you to make me realize that it’s not an impulsive decision to just push me on my bed and jump on top of me. I want you to tease me and make me want it to start soon.
I want you to build up the tension and anticipation in the bedroom.
As I’m finishing up my last bits of work for the day, I want you to whisper some things to me. As I’m brushing my teeth, and rubbing my face with lotion, I’d love it if you grab my ass and give it a soft slap. You could choose to play our favorite sex playlist and signal me that something exciting is close. A quick peck on the neck as you brush past me would be magic!
Maybe that makes me wear something sexier for you (and me)! Hot, right?
We’re both in bed. Laying with our warm bodies close to each other. Do you jump up, rip my clothes off, and start going hard and fast?
No! Not today please, some other day!
I want to kiss you. I want to kiss you hard. I don’t want it to stop anytime soon. I want you to kiss me as you want me. I want you to grab my hair, and stroke my hair as we kiss. I want you to lift me up and make me sit on your lap as you kiss me. As we swirl our tongues, I want you to curl me up in your strong arms and press your chest against my breasts. I wish our tongues to explore each other for some more time.
I want you to explore my entire body. If you could start with my neck, that sweet spot just under my ears, I would be ready to do anything (well, not anything, but many things) for you at that point. Your gentle breath will drive me crazier. I want you to tickle down my shoulders to my breasts.
I want you to go down south, but we can wait for some time. As I sit with my legs wrapped across you on your lap, I want you to bury your face in my breasts. I want your tongue to taste my firm tips. I want you to play with them til’ the time I can’t wait any longer.
It’s time to go down, on me. I want you to slowly slide down my tummy. As you slide your fingers down, I want you to feel my breathing get heavier. I want you to wake me by running your fingers along my back, spine, and thighs in slow lingering motions.
By the time you reach between my legs, I’m sure you’ll find me dripping wet. I want you to softly touch me and rub your fingers with smooth circular motions. Now, I want you to enjoy the wet folds of my sweet vagina. As your fingers and tongue explore the depths of my sweet vagina, you’ll be able to feel my breathing change. My body will move and respond to each rhythm of your tongue.
Enjoy the slow pace of things. My body will give a signal when I want you to up your game. I’ll moan and my rising pitch and my eyes rolling back will guide you well. Babe, I’ll be with you the whole time.
Keep your ears and eyes open, and you’ll be great!
I know you will love me for this, just as I loved you for that.
I want you to stop thinking now. And help me out here. Relax! I know I should run my hands through your hair. I know you love it when I stretch out my fingers and let them slide on your bare torso. I see it in your eyes that my hair brushing against your neck and shoulders is driving you crazy. I’ll let my hair fall everywhere. This is chaos. This is getting messy. And you’re loving it.
I’ll then drop down on my knees. I’ll slowly slide my hands up your thighs. I’m teasing you here. I’ll slowly run my fingertips onto your shaft. I’ll take my time. I’ll lick you up, all the way from your base to the very soft tip. I’ll wrap my fingers around your hard shaft. I’ll give it some gentle strokes. I’ll linger my mouth around your shaft. I’ll tease you for just some more time. I’ll start with the head in my mouth. I’ll pause. I’ll suck on it. I will then take all of it in.
I don’t want to go fast. You too, right?
I will envelop you wholly inside my mouth. I will use all my saliva to make you all wet and messy. I want you to hold my hair back, as I move back and forth. I’m not losing your eyes. I’m looking straight up into your eyes. Each stroke of mine is making you bigger and harder. As you close your eyes and roll your head back, I move back. You love me for this, right?
I don’t want this to end here! I hope you too!
Let’s live the rest of the story in the near future.
I Want You To Wait Too. What’s The Rush, People?
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