Sex Is Not…
Knowing what great sex is means knowing what it’s not
Sex is not meaningless.
Even if you’re not in a committed relationship and it’s strictly “just sex.” Even if it’s a purely physical relationship, no emotional strings attached. Even if it’s a one-night-stand and you don’t know each other’s names. The truth is — even the most carefree, uncommitted sexual encounter is intimate. You’re sharing your most private body parts with another human being. You’re sharing bodily fluids, pleasure, lust.
It may just be about sex, but sex is never meaningless. So make sure your partner is on the same level when it comes to what the sexual encounter means. Does it mean the potential for a relationship? Does it mean friends with benefits? Does it mean one time only and never again? Communicate that beforehand.
Sex is not the same for men and women.
When considering physiological differences between men’s and women’s body parts, a skillful and talented sexual partner understands that sex doesn’t begin just because a man is ready to begin — and it’s not finished just because he “finished.” A woman may not be able to get fully aroused as quickly as a man can — and it’s not as visibly obvious whether or not she’s ready to go. Worship her body with foreplay…
