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Smart About Love

Major Dating Problem: You Still Look For The Stupid Spark.

Let’s dissect the perfect guy.

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Let’s be honest here: this article is more of a reminder than a breakthrough. Unless you’re very young (nothing wrong with that), you already know it’s not the spark that makes a relationship work long-term.

You know what I mean by the spark, right? That “wow” moment, the instant…




The goal is that you’re happy: relationship or no relationship.

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Maya Sayvanova

Maya Sayvanova

Smart about love. 35, married, two kids. Full time writer.

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