Snippets of Growth
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Snippets of Growth

Trusting My Ex Cost Me All My Savings

Sign on the dotted line in case the happily ever after doesn’t work out

Photo by Atikh Bana on Unsplash

I knew it wasn’t a smart move. But he was persuasive. “Come on. Trust me,” he said.

We’d been together for over ten years and worked through some pretty big stuff. But this time, we were at a standoff. We’d fallen in love with a beautiful farmhouse on the…




Life is all about growth. From pretty and profound to unwanted and ugly. Here’s mine.

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Judith Victoria

Judith Victoria

Essays on life, love, and other lousy stuff. Otherworldly flash fiction & romantic short stories. Failing forward. Perpetually amazed.

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