The Best Way

If you want to start living the life you want to live, start working on that dream reality.

If you don’t start working on that goal or achievement, you will only remain where you are and have been till this day. Ask yourself how badly you want this life? Now use that as your motivation.

Sometimes we need to just let things happen and to just see where it leads us to. And also another important part of letting ourselves see different views even regardless of how much we disagree or don’t like the views, we should do it anyway.

Because everyone deserves to be heard and to be valued and all for each individual person in the world needs and deserves!

Everyone has been there. We all have had those people in our lives who tell us how to live our lives and who to be. And many of us have found ourselves to give into that power and pressure because we want to be accepted and to not have them on our backs constantly telling us “oh don’t do that, do this.” and “don’t say that, say this.” and “don’t be that (aka, yourself), be this instead)!”

Because it appears to others following their demands seems logical and yet a smart way to go. A way of living one’s life should never be demanded nor forced on someone. If they don’t want to follow a demand or anything, they have every right to refuse it.

If someone wants to be whoever they wanna be, they will be that person, no matter who disagrees and how long it will take to fully become that person.

If you want change for yourself or others, you need to keep in mind that you can only inspire it, but don’t demand it. And when you inspire it, make sure you are following/setting the example you are inspiring. Cuz if you don’t, don’t expect anyone to follow it if you aren’t yourself!

And when it comes to change, you must know that it only happens when you inspire it rather than forcing it. If someone doesn’t want to do or say something, that’s their choice and no one should force them to like it’s the right thing to do.

And that it’s not the right thing to be who they wanna be, do what they wanna do in their life, do what makes them happy (which won’t make everyone happy as not everyone will agree or like them).

If they wanna act the same at they choose, don’t get mad nor take it personally when they choose their own way of living. They have every right to love the life they want on their own terms! And to make something of themselves on top of being their own person.