Thoughts on Embracing Change and Growth
A transformative journey of letting people go and becoming your authentic self
Life is unpredictable and sometimes as a result of our own decisions. Lately I have embarked on reassessing the intentions I have for my life, which has prompted me to let go of certain relationships that don’t align, or encourage me to be where I want to be. While the process has been painful in many ways, it’s also brought a sense of relief.
Our emotions can inform us, in which way our emotional being is very important, and it’s those moments of relief that clarify how necessary it was for me to shift those dynamics. I felt so liberated from these interactions that were not benefitting either party. As time passes, that relief grows more into a reclaiming of my energy which has allowed me to reconnect with who I am; although I didn’t even realize how much I’d changed until I moved away.
Change isn’t easy, especially if that means leaving people behind, but it can lead to releasing forms of emotional baggage, giving so much more opportunity to honor who we really are. Embracing that decision, despite the uncertainty, has shown me how significant it is to be intentional with the people you keep close to you. It also showed me how much I really needed to love myself above anything, because when we empower who we are, we are living from an authentic place which allows us to meet people that are on our wavelength.
“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” — Alan Watts
Ironically, change has always been apart of my life. I enjoy expanding on my curiosities, whether that means traveling, moving, or simply taking up new hobbies. In that regard, I have allowed myself the freedom to explore, leading to opportunities for personal growth and showing me how valuable different spaces can impact our well-being. But personal growth in itself requires change; it required letting go of the old ways of living, thinking and confronting my limiting-beliefs. Growing meant allowing my new circumstances to influence the way I thought and lived in positive ways, even if that meant moving through discomfort. Although growing through change can be uncomfortable, it can also lead to learning more about ourselves, about people, as well as teach us how resilient we really are.
Changes in our perception, however, come with external challenges as well as internal. When our approach to life shifts, sometimes that means the people in our world shift as well. You might find that people are less receptive or understanding, as you’ve now experienced different versions of the world. Your thought patterns may have changed, or perhaps you’ve addressed limiting beliefs that are still present within their own mindset. When growth has taken place, it’s not always possible to remain on the same wavelength as the people you once engaged with. You’re now on this path of expansion, which will require a different version of you in order to progress. Perhaps indirectly, or in my case directly, you will find yourself letting people go.
Although growing will require us to make shifts in our world, the discomfort we go through also leads to paths of self-discovery. You are now thinking in ways that are progressive to you becoming your most authentic self; as these explorations of how life can be will increase your need to question what is possible. You might find yourself becoming more reflective on your experiences, the discomfort you had to go through, and resilience you have now built up. With that in mind, being immersed in new opportunities isn’t just building on our experience, but can introduce us to new passions, values, and aspirations. It can result in a complete realignment of our lives; it’s a journey of self-discovery.
Embracing growth often entails making difficult choices and enduring challenging moments, but it’s important to believe that they lead to a worthwhile outcome. In conclusion, letting people go and transitioning into a different person is a profound and empowering journey. Embracing change and growth, releasing emotional baggage, and honoring authenticity are pivotal steps that lead to self-discovery and a more fulfilling life.
“Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” — Jim Rohn
