This One Small Thing Reveals the Depth of Your Relationship
The intensity of your relationships shows your connection with yourself.
Relationships are mirrors.
But if you’re standing far from the mirror or it is not clean, things look hazy.
Many people are afraid to peek inside themselves, which is why their relationships are superficial. They are afraid to jump inside themselves.
But the more you protect yourself from vulnerability, the farther you’re from love.
Superficial vs deep
Yesterday, my cousin, who works in the music industry, asked me, “I’ve seen people move on in relationships quickly as if the person never mattered. What is this?”
The answer that came was, “This shows the depth of their relationship. The more superficial their relationship is with the other, the easier it is to move on. But if it is deep, it is difficult to leave the relation casually.”
You work on your relationships when you’re serious. Everybody is imperfectly perfect as themselves, and two lovers try to make things work.
The longer and closer you are to someone, the more shortcomings you see. But when love is there, you embrace the other as they are.
