Answer these 2 Golden Questions to consciously manifest your dream life

Ramona Feraru
Spirit embodied
Published in
5 min readNov 5, 2023

No matter how good you are in terms of manifestation tricks and techniques, unless you answer what I call The Two Golden Questions your manifesting results will either be random or they will not end up truly satisfying you.

The most important important questions to answer when wanting to manifest your dream life is….. WHO AM I? But wait, isn’t this only one question? Well not really. Because there are two levels you must answer this question at in order for you to be a conscious manifestor.

The first one is the spiritual level.

You are not just here to pay rent and bills. Most people live their lives believing to be their body, their name, their personality and the identity they have constructed with the passing of time. Some may hope they have a soul somewhere inside but they mostly know it from hearsay and they do not KNOW themselves to be that. Thus they live their existence asleep, focused on surviving and perpetuating the species.

You are divine. You are timeless. You are untouched, infinite and ever whole. You are pure consciousness. You Are THAT I am.

But knowing this only conceptually will not be of much use. Just as merely talking about the chemical formula of water will not quench your thirst.

The second level you need to answer Who am I? is the human level, in terms of your individuality.

If you look at it at a superficial level, you will notice that this changes in different stages of your life. But I am not referring so much at this fickle side of you, your ego or your constructed persona. No, I am referring to that pure but unique you that the Divine decided to play as in this life. Who are you here to play as? I often give the examples of little children before they developed and ego. Each one has a unique fragrance so to say, a specific expression. That uniqueness in it’s purest form is one of God’s faces. And dismissing it is just as unhealthy as completely identifying with it.

So why is it important to answer these two golden questions?

Let’s start with the first one. Why is it important to find out who you are at a spiritual level? Can you not manifest if you don’t realize your divine Self? Well… Yes, and no.

Everyone is Divine consciousness, regardless of them being or not aware of it. So the creative power of God is present intrinsically in all and is active in any moment either way. But What is the use of being a king if you live believing to be a beggar? What is the use of having a hidden treasure in your yard if you don’t know about it? So, in order to manifest consciously you can only do so from your true position of identification. Only from the space of a true identification with the ultimate Creator you can be naturally aware of your intrinsic creative and manifesting power. Trying to create and manifest from the standpoint of a person who identifies with their body and limited individuality is a hurdle.

Another reason why you need to know your divine identity in order to manifest is because you cannot create from a space of lack and by placing the source of your wholeness into outer objects. No matter what you think you want, you don’t truly want that specific object. The object is always just a means to an end. What you truly want is the feeling or the state you believe having that object will give you. And is will usually a feeling and a state that evokes your wholeness. You want to feel whole and unlimited because, at a subconscious level that is who you know you have always been. Furthermore, in order to create and manifest , you need to live as if what you wish is already here. Trying to experience that sense of fulfilment in the present moment while still thinking it can only be given by something other than yourself its a struggle in the best case scenario and a lost case in the worst one. You can only manifest from wholeness and the awareness of wholeness is not about pursuing positively polarized emotions and sensations. You cannot emulate the sense of wholeness by cultivating pleasant sensations and emotions.

The true sense of wholeness is only the implicit side effect of the awareness of your true identity and abidance in and as your true divine Self.

If during the process of manifestation you dwell on the present opposing circumstances, you infuse them with your power of attention and belief and thus keep them active in your experience. At the same time, it is natural for humans to emote based on what they perceive and ,by constantly observing the current situation which contradicts the one you desire, you might trigger within you negative emotions which will launch you in a vicious cycle: the more you respond emotionally to the current reality the more it solidifies, the more it solidifies the further the desired one seems and the more unattainable it seems the more intensely you will feel your negative emotions regard it. Nevertheless, not everyone can constantly sustain the image of their wish fulfilled and dwell in the conviction of it being real already by denying what their senses tells them. But if you have realized who you truly are at a spiritual level, whenever you don’t use your attention in the imaging process for the desired future, instead of allowing it to lay on the current state of things, you can rest your attention inwardly, on your true Being, which is your ever present source of joy, peace and fulfillment. Remember, your Kindom is Here and Now and it is I AM.

Why is it important to answer the second question: Who am I at a human level?

No matter who you are, or if you don’t think of yourself to be very smart, talented or gifted, there are specific gifts within you that are unique to you and that only you can contribute with to the universal tapestry of existence.

It is the role the Supreme Actor chose to play through you in order to know and love itself in this unique form of expression. Denying or repressing it often leads to heavy energetic blockages and further on to physical ailments.

Knowing who you are in terms of individual consciousness embodied in your unique expression will help you choose the right desires, meaning not the desires meant for mere transient pleasure, but those who support your free and joyful perfect self expression.

Take the time to ask yourself the Two Golden Questions and, by Grace, you might find out that the answer to both is not a means to an end, but the destination you have been trying to reach all along. Happy manifesting.

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Ramona Feraru
Spirit embodied

Exploring all levels of existence, from the transcendental to the human rawness.