How to Outsmart Your Dom
Ten things (not) to say to drive your top up the wall
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2 min readOct 13, 2020
Nothing triggers and gets your (benign, sexual-) sadist or dominant going like small acts of defiance; snarky comments, ripe with brattiness. After thorough research, I’ve compiled the following list of all the things to not— under any circumstance — say to your sadistic partner during play. Their likely reactions are listed below.
- I don’t bruise easily…
We’ll see about that…(Makes damn sure you bruise a lot) - I never scream!
That was before you met me! (You will scream) - I bet you can’t make me cry…
Challenge accepted! (Prepare to weep) - Try me! (Said with a cocky smirk)
Oh, I will… (Yep, they certainly will) - Oh no, not the cane! (Insert whatever else is in their hand)
Double cane it is! - Oh no, I’m soooo scared… (Add a tinge of sarcasm)
You’ve seen nothing yet. (They’ll show you) - Ouch, that hurts!
You think that hurts, wait until you see this… - That barely hurt…
Wait, what? (Steps up their game even further) - … (Make no sound at all and smile defyingly back at them)
… (The lack of reaction drives them mad) - Wait, was that it?
Hah, that was just the beginning… (Enter…