Is Submission an Excuse to Be Lazy in Bed?

The active role of the ‘passive’ part in a D/s dynamic

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Nov 16, 2020 · 6 min read
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Circlusion and penetration

Before playing

Prenegotiaton and preparation

The submissive holds the power!

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During a scene

Styles of submission

Feedback increases flow

Use of body language

Post-play

Aftercare

Feedback and integration

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Ena Dahl

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Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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Ena Dahl

Written by

Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

Where Desire Rules

The best lovers are eager to learn. Expand your boundaries and dive deep into our guides from experts in kink and pleasure.

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