Why We Love Rope

Riggers and rope models share what Shibari means to them

Ena Dahl
Ena Dahl
Dec 27, 2020 · 9 min read
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Photo: Jay S. Laffat | Rigger: Rope Unleashed | Model: Sonja

Everything disappears — all but the model — and a special bond forms

When I’m bound, I’m all of me

A rare territory where body and mind are invited to insatiably receive fine pleasures

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Nothing ever touched me like the tight, warm embrace of ropes around my body; I instantly felt held and safe

You can communicate through rope, without the use of words

I love the level of trust, communication, and closeness

A restricting, yet releasing, tight hug, that slows the mind

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The ropes carve a path down which I’m allowed to escape my fears

Every session is a fairytale re-enacted to a blissful end

Tying makes me forget the world

The nonverbal language of shibari has clarity and honesty to it

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My playful side always tries new things

My joy comes from knowing I’ve met her needs, kept her safe, and brought her back

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Ena Dahl

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Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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The best lovers are eager to learn. Expand your boundaries and dive deep into our guides from experts in kink and pleasure.

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