#NoFearFriday

This Is Why She Wants To Be A “Hoe”

This one is for all the ladies out there who were condemned for expressing their sexuality. Your fathers and brothers were once doing the same thing and are now condemning you for expressing yourselves sexually and this leads to dysfunction of many kinds.

I witnessed a girl lose herself to sex because her father neglected her once he realised she was exploring her sexuality. This led to her trying to find his affection in the arms of any man who would have her. When you’re a young lady this affection is very easy to find and it can give you a false sense of love.

This is because you’re desperately seeking the male validation you’ve been deprived of from your father. If you want to have fulfilling relationships instead of feeling like something is missing from your life — repair the relationship you have with your father and you will notice a difference in the type of relationships you attract to you.

It will be difficult — particularly if your father was “strict” — but having an open and honest conversation with him will reveal many reasons why you behave the way you do. If he refuses to acknowledge you as a person who has the same right to explore your sexuality as he does — he is stuck in an old way of thinking that may be hard to break.

Particularly men of older generations find this mindset hard to change — but with patience, love and understanding you can both build a better relationship. This better relationship will greatly reduce your need to seek out temporary validation and affection from men in the form of one night stands and relationships you know aren’t serving you.

This will result in you having more respect for yourself and having a higher bar for entry when it comes to deciding who and what you allow into your life. This is not limited to romantic relationships — but friends, family & your work.

Neglect from our parents causes us to seek out their love in the arms of others.

Peace & positive vibes.