#NoFearFriday

Sachin Sharma
Spoon of Consciousness
2 min readNov 17, 2017

5 Reasons Why You’re Still “Single”

1. You’re neglecting the relationship you have with yourself. We are never actually “single” because we’re always in a relationship with ourselves. When we love ourselves we are filling our own cup, rather than holding out an empty cup hoping others will fill it. We attract what we are, so when we love ourselves we will attract others who will love us.

2. Your vibe attracts your tribe. Often times many of us find that we don’t resonate with the people we meet and this is because we forget that our vibe attracts our tribe. Those we meet are always reflecting something about us, if we don’t resonate with them we must look within and assess our own behaviour to attract better in the future.

3. You’re not being authentic. Surrounding ourselves with the people, places and things that make us feel good is the surest way to attract a loving and fulfilling relationship. Settling for less than our heart’s true desires is the fastest route to poor mental and physical health.

4. You’re seeking love from another person. When we approach others without loving ourselves first — this can cause us to seek love out of desperation. When we feel like we “need” a relationship we are sending the signal of scarcity to the universe — rather than one of abundance. When we are in the scarcity mindset we will experience scarcity in all areas of our lives including relationships.

5. You’re stuck in the past. We cannot hope to create a better tomorrow if we’re still living in yesterday. Indeed, it’s important to reflect on our past mistakes and integrate what we’ve learned — but we must bring our focus and attention into the now if we want to create relationships that serve and fulfil us.

The most important relationship is the one we have with ourselves.

Peace & positive vibes.

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Sachin Sharma
Spoon of Consciousness

Daily blogger, bi-weekly podcaster, life coach & spiritual mentor sharing what’s helped me create a life I love. London, UK. www.spoonofconsciousness.com