Stoic advice: my grandfather threatens to end our relationship if he doesn’t have his way

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G. writes: My grandfather, who is quite old, had a serious heart attack problem and he had been very close to die. In fact, his heart stopped beating for a serious amount of time. Sadly, he is also out of his mind meaning that he does not listen to the doctors or anybody. He continuous smoking and driving, putting his life and the lives