Stoic advice: My mother abused me, should I reach out to her?

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L. writes: How should a Stoic go about reconnecting with a loved one who has abused them (in my case emotionally) or cut them off? I’m currently 26. My mother was wonderful most of my life but started emotionally abusing me at the age of 17, culminating when I was 21. She gave me the