StoryGarden
Published in

StoryGarden

Photo by Rostyslav Savchyn on Unsplash

Is your Lover more afraid of abandonment, or exploitation?

Understanding your partner’s dominant relationship fear will help you decode their behavior. And your own.

According to the Attachment Theory of relationships, romantic commitments require a constant renegotiation between two competing existential fears:

--

--

--

Stories that make sense of the complex human experience

Recommended from Medium

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store
Thomas P Seager, PhD

Thomas P Seager, PhD

Self-Actual Engineering. https://seagertp.substack.com/ @seagertp

More from Medium