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Relationship “Chemistry,” explained.

Imago theory suggests we seek partners who remind us of our trauma, and expect to them to heal us.

According to Harville Hendrix in Getting the Love You Want (1988), we unconsciously seek out romantic partners that remind us of the people who wounded us in childhood, because we believe only they can heal our childhood wounds.

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