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July 31st Is National Orgasm Day!

And what else is going on in Mysterious Witt’s life?

Photo by Victoria Borodinova.

It’s been a hell of a couple of weeks for me. But before we get into that, let’s talk about National Orgasm Day. This special day is upon us on July 31st. In commemoration of this holiday, I’d like to remind you of several articles I wrote about orgasms:

Yes, as an Escort, I Orgasm With My Clients: Sex workers can actually experience pleasure on the job.

Why Women Should Bring a Vibrator Along on Every Date: If a woman is going to get down, she deserves to always get off.

Whether She Has Multiple or Mini-Orgasms, There’s No Right Way to Come: A woman should never feel pressured to climax a certain way — or worse, feel shame because she can’t live up to a certain “orgasm standard.”

These three essays hit the issue of female orgasm in different ways. If you haven’t read them yet, I hope you’ll take a moment now to look at them.

I have some personal struggles to deal with.

That said, it is true that I am going through a rough patch at the moment. My partner has been diagnosed with cancer. We’re still waiting back to determine whether it’s metastatic. So as you can imagine, I’ve been through a couple of weeks of hell.

This comes on the tail end of other family members becoming critically ill. It also comes in the wake of going to visit my dad and his wife. Though I try very hard to get along with them, the outcome is always the same: the realization that my family members don’t respect me at all and basically think I’m a loser.

Clearly, though, I still care about my family. I try to keep connected with them. They still care about me in their way. But it’s also very painful to have family members who refuse to look at the best in me — especially when these are the people who are theoretically supposed to be those whom I can depend on for moral support.

I need moral support at the moment, but this is not something I can count on from my family. Therefore, you may be able to understand why I’ve been hunkering down.

I’m taking care of myself. I also need to be strong for my partner.

At least he’s still alive after two grueling surgeries to remove a tumor from his spine. He will have to go through radiation even if he doesn’t have to endure chemotherapy. He may have to undergo chemotherapy, though, if the cancer has spread to other parts of his body.

My last three weeks have consisted of driving back and forth to the hospital — which is quite far from where I live. I’ve had to do this while attempting to find care for my children since they’re not allowed in the hospital as Covid cases are spiking again in Los Angeles.

And of course, my family decided this was a good time to insult me as usual. That comes after spending thousands of dollars to take my children to go visit them. So let’s just say I haven’t been in a sexy mood of late.

This means I’ve stopped creating visual content — so sorry to those who have subscribed to my fans page. I hope to get back to uploading content soon. I’m trying to find my way back to writing as well.

Even with the challenges, I’ve published a couple of new stories this week:

My Husband Was Cheating — But I Hate That I Snooped: When we resort to snooping, we only disrespect ourselves.

Kissing Is Both an Intensely Intimate Yet Bizarrely Casual Way of Connecting: Kissing doesn’t directly involve the genitals but still, it bonds us.

Again, if you haven’t already read these, I invite you to do so now. They were both curated by Medium and are good reads.

Mysterious Witt is now on Clubhouse.

In other news, there’s a new way to connect with me. Many of you have followed me on Instagram to get a glimpse of what I look like. You might have also subscribed to my fans page to get a more intimate window into my life.

But have you ever wondered what I sound like? What about hearing me speak live on a variety of subjects involving sex?

You can do just that by downloading Clubhouse and then following me (at) sexwriter.

No, no affiliate link here. I just think it’s a great opportunity to hear me speak live about sex. I’m on Clubhouse almost every day, adding value to a variety of conversations.

And do know that I always appreciate your coffees. You can buy me a coffee here.

That’s all for now. I hope to return to writing at my regular pace next month.

A candied kiss from me to you,




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Emme Witt

Emme Witt

Writer. Sex expert. Dominatrix. Mom. Normal person. As seen in NYPost, MetroUK, Giddy, Mic, InsideHook. Treat me to a cold brew: