Think of My Clit as a Small Penis
If my clit’s not hard, you can’t penetrate me

I had an experience with my boyfriend this morning. Mind you, this is a man who really cares for me. He doesn’t mind that I masturbate during sex. He licks me for hours. He is a complete gentleman and an amazing lover.
But even with him, he tried to penetrate me too soon. We had just started kissing and…