Misdirection: The Art of Love Bombing

“Love Bombing: An attempt to influence a person with lavish…

Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

The above is a Polish Proverb and one that is good for survivors of abuse to keep in mind when they are…

The Balance Between being Prepared and Being Anxious

Round and Round It Goes

Any sane, functional person reading this is now asking, “Why in the world did…

Reclaiming Forgiveness

Forgiveness is such a loaded term for survivors of abuse, and I think in large…

Getting Out and Staying Out (Part 1)

On average, it takes 7 tries to get out and stay out of an…

Battle of the Brain

Never in my healing process was anything as big and looming a challenge as the…

The Incredible Hulking Mom

You hurt my daughters and I would far prefer to rip your arms off and beat…

It Wasn’t Me!

Toxic people take no responsibility for any of their behaviour. It shuts everything…

Know What Drives You

Your drivers are what cause you to do what you do, while your motivators are what…