How I Chose a Dowry-Free-Marriage

And why it was so important for my marriage

Suraj Ghimire
Apr 17, 2020 · 8 min read

To have a dowry-free-marriage was one of my lifetime dreams.

A dowry is an evil tool of a society

Dowry is a state of illness

Dowry is a pseudo-social status

I wanted a marriage with no dowry

We never endorsed dowry. But the marriage gift of large monetary value for social showoff was highly likely to occur. I had to fight against such tradition.

We as a family didn’t know each other. Thus any communication could have been misunderstood and take an ugly turn.

At any cost, I had to convey my wish.

The moment of simultaneous peace and conflicts

Life after the wedding day

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Follower of Jesus Christ | Data Science Student | I write stories of a random heart that I come across | Connect with me https://linktr.ee/authorsuraj

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