Raise Your Red Flags

Because the right people will get it

Rosie Leizrowice
Apr 7 · 5 min read
Strangers mostly at a friend’s birthday, last year.

People disliking or disagreeing with aspects of you is not necessarily a sign you need to change for their sake. It’s usually just a sign that you don’t vibe with each other.


The even harder part is finding the right people. There’s no map for that and sometimes it takes work. But the worst thing to do is to believe they don’t exist.


Everyone tells us not to bother trying to change other people. It’s less common to hear not to bother with people who try to change you.


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