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The Unglamorous First Step of Building a Life Worth Living

The step that no one wants to take.

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When I first learned about the “self-awareness onion”, an idea Mark Manson expresses in his book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, it immediately struck a chord with me.

Years earlier, I had begun to unwrap my own “onion” and the process I went through was exactly as Manson described. There were…




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Jeff Valdivia

Jeff Valdivia

Following my curiosity and hoping it will lead me to wisdom. I write about psychology, meditation, self-development, and spirituality.

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