This Is Why It Has Nothing To Do With You

The freedom of knowing that someone else’s behavior is not about you

Deb Knobelman, PhD
Dec 19, 2018 · 5 min read

Three years into my first job on Wall Street, I was ready for more responsibility.

I had done well in my junior role, and it was not uncommon for high performing juniors to get promoted after 3 or 4 years.