I went to school during the tumultuous 1960s. We learned a lot, and knew a lot of stuff, but not much about sexual identity issues. — Ian and I were never close. Our Moms were friends. Ian and I attended different elementary schools, but the same junior high and high school. We saw each other occasionally, passing in the halls, and infrequently hung out together. We did not have a lot in common. Our friends did…