Benjamin Hardy

The world needs to know who you are so you can help others — Scott Proposki, my story — I have lived in the suburbs of Boston, MA, USA, for the past 53 years; before that, I wasn’t alive! My career started as a photographer for the local newspaper, and I went to the local school for picture day, and I quickly moved up…

Photo by SUNBEAM PHOTOGRAPHY on Unsplash Legendary NFL Hall of Fame coach Bill Walsh once said, “if your why is strong enough, you will figure out how”. I was extremely fortunate to do a podcast with Benjamin Hardy. A quick background about him- Organizational Psychologist Author of four books One…

August 5, 2042 The focus seems to be one of the most used words in 2022; we all lost focus of the future. I am reading a new book from my friend Benjamin Hardy, Be Your Future Self Now. He talks about living your life today as if it were 20 years from today; that would put him at 53 years old as he tells us in his book; I’m…

I wrote this article inspired by Dr. Benjamin Hardy’s book, The Gap and The Gain. It never occurred to us that comparing yourself to an ideal could be a bad thing. Isn’t that how it works? Don’t we personally develop by always grasping at the next thing? Doesn’t our discontentment…

Here’s some stuff I’m currently thinking about… These are just some of the things kicking around in my brain right now and I wanted to share them with you in case you find them interesting… - Stop Complaining Complaining….It’s fine to get pissed off — at pretty much anyone and…

“Think before you speak. Read before you think”. Franz Lebowitz Across the 366 days of 2020, I accomplished my goal of reading 60 books; and then some. At the conclusion of 2020, I had completed 63 books. With a reading list that demonstrated a variety of perspectives, a topical diversity…

I accidentally took a month off of writing newsletters and by accidentally, I mean that I just felt I was out of words to say in 2020. To be honest, I still kind of feel that way. I’ve read a lot of instagram posts from people who are also feeling…

Need for acceptance into the tribe is more compelling than will power Habits By now, you will have established habits to cope with living in coronavirus world. your habits may be constructive or destructive. Your habits may have evolved. Eating and drinking to excess is an option many have adopted. Reading electronic books has picked up dramatically. New methods of getting exercise are…

“Change yourself. You can do anything that you want to do if you try hard enough!” How many times have we heard this from well-meaning people around us? How many times have you “wanted” to do something but couldn’t “get yourself to do it”? Who did you blame? Yourself, of…