If what you say is true and that is, you love yourself, then I really believe you don’t have a problem. You hold on to your standards (and don’t let anyone tell you that your standards are too high), and be patient and I promise you, that the positive aspects of yourself, will attract someone that has similar qualities to you. Where it did not work…

I want to believe I matter

I want to believe I matter 
But these here white men say I don’t 
When I speak they start to chatter
Cut me off and make me hope
That I could one day find fodder 
To discuss in my own name
Without having all these people
Tell me our tears are just the same
Even black men make me…