Be honest with what you want. It does not mean you need to pursue it. But at least don’t deprived yourself of dreaming. You are responsible for your own happiness. You cannot force someone to spend their time on you. If they do, learn to accept their offer and be grateful. If they don’t, learn to accept it as well — face value. The soceity and people around your have their desired outcome for you. So does the company you are working with, your parents, friends, partners and even strangers. The question is — What is your desired outcome?