Infidelity

I was inspired to write this by checking out an article that gave reasons on why men cheat. I as much as people come up with reasons why men or women cheat, it got me wondering. Is monogamy dead? Why are so many people cheating nowadays and why is it…

And it was the best thing that ever happened to me. — “The end really weighed heavily on my heart. I would have done anything to save my ex. She didn’t know how special she really was.” — anonymous poster on the internet. So, it’s time to give up. It really is too bad that I was so taken in by the…

In the moment of heartbreak — When my world came crumbling down, I watched it fall without a sound. I felt every piece of me fall away. I fell silent. There was nothing to say. While he broke me with his words, My silence was all he heard. Little to no reaction, physically I went numb. …

Let’s describe the differences between my husband and my lover. — The first time I slept with my lover, he told me, “You’re so amazing.” And then he held me tenderly. He still praises me even now. He’ll take any opportunity for time together. “I always want you.” At home, I don’t even get a touch or a squeeze. Let alone…

The anxiety never really goes away — I know that sounds pretty damn dramatic, but hear me out. If you have ever been cheated on you will do anything in your power to never let it happen again. Regardless of how hard you fight it, the fear of it happening again never really subsides. After infidelity, you…

People. I have news for you. The way you think about your infidelity situation MATTERS. The way you orient yourself to the fact that you are cheating — or doing whatever it is you’re doing — will determine the way you take action in regards to your situation. If you tell yourself that your infidelity situation is a problem that’s impossible to solve, you’re probably going to prove yourself right. When we believe things are true, we tend to behave as if they are. And then, through our very own actions, we produce evidence that our beliefs are correct.

Putting yourself in a dangerous spot is not fun. — Anna, a woman we met a few years ago, is an intelligent woman with a successful career and has had some complex relationship experiences that have come to light. According to her friend, she was previously involved with a committed man with whom she had a pre-teen son. However, conflicts…