Discover how the ordinary can become extraordinary, as we explore 13 unusual yet promising places to meet and connect with other gay men. — Let me tell you, my friends, meeting other gay men can sometimes feel like an ongoing session of ‘Where’s Waldo?’ in a world full of straight people. You go through life, scanning crowds, coffee shops, and corridors, waiting for your gaydar to ping. Sometimes, I swear, it feels like I’m…