Almost everything about covert narcissism is a Catch-22 — caught between the Scylla and Charybdis — a rock and a hard place. — Catch-22. You’ve heard the phrase, but do you know where it comes from? Joseph Heller, the brilliant mind behind the book “Catch-22,” published his book in 1961 and introduced the term into the English language for the first time. He coined it himself. In the book, a “Catch-22” is a…