If your lease states that heat is included then it should be included, regardless of what type of heat it is. I would definitely try and contact your landlord about this and perhaps look into local laws (in Chicago we have a tenants rights organization that will provide guidance on these sort of things).
I’m still trying to wrap my head around the idea of you dating a rich guy for his money and then giving it to charity. And I wouldn’t worry about psychopaths. If the guy cares enough to spend money on you, I’m sure he’ll listen if you tell him to go kill somebody else. That’s where charm comes in.
Today I am thinking about how we can control healthcare, Medicare and Medicaid costs.
One abuse of the system (since we’re talking about waste, fraud and abuse) is the ability of the elderly to “hide” assets from the system.