Polyamory

I have searched for films featuring open relationships for the past few months. This initially proved challenging. Name any classic romance — Titanic, The Wedding Singer, The Notebook — and all focus on the union of two individuals, with a pesky third as an antagonist. Sometimes three people will be…

The answer’s not so cut and dry. — Some people think that if non-monogamy were a more socially accepted form of relating, fewer people out in the world would cheat. And as a former cheater, I have tended to agree… The idea is, many of us can’t keep continually denying our desires for other people. If we feel…

To throw a monkey wrench into something is to sabotage it or prevent it from working correctly. My heart thru a wrench by being in a wrench. There was not supposed to be a Part 3 to this series. Well, there is now a Part 3, and it’s a real…

An Unfolding Love Story — Part 5 Three Months, Two Weeks I am a writer of letters. My love history is strewn with them. They are my most prized possession. And, I love writing to you, and love that you love my writing. Do you know, I think I first…

An Unfolding Poly Love Story: Our true beginning Three Months Together Today is the real beginning. My honest words. His hard texts. Tears. Then love. We made love today. Raw and joined. We spent a perfect hour this morning together. He came over we sat. Quickly legs entwined. Quickly to the bedroom, where…

An Poly Unfolding Love Story: The Spell is Broken The spell is broken. He’s poly greedy, too busy, stretched too thin. He is the best among them. Strong. Smart. Honest. Sexy. I choose him, I want him. But I don’t have him. I prayed for him and he arrived. Divine…

Four years ago my husband and I opened up our relationship not knowing that we were majorly, and I mean majorly, shaking things up. In those four years, we have learned an almost entirely new way to define and live out our relationship. Although I sometimes think we are hitting…