Psychology

The freedom of the outward gaze — I would like to share a quick story. It goes like this; a group of well-being researchers was studying happiness and social comparisons. Their question was “Does comparing yourself to people better off than you make you miserable?” And they found that, of course, misery liked comparisons. This set off…

Not as complicated as you think. — Just the other day, my original blog celebrated its 10th birthday. When I first began writing, my mission was to help men develop a greater understanding of women, and of themselves. To show up better in their relationships. …

The spiral of childhood invalidation into our adult lives. — Our primary caregivers are the first people we associate with the word ‘love’ as infants. They are the first voices we hear, and their words and actions deeply resonate with how we see ourselves and how we learn to interact with the world. In a safe and predictable world, our…

Then dismembered as a final act of horror — On October 5, 2012, young Jessica Ridgeway from Westminster, Colorado, vanished during her routine morning walk to school. The 10-year-old was supposed to rendezvous with friends at a neighborhood park and continue together to school, but she never showed up at either place. Jessica’s mother, Sarah, who worked late hours…

Discover a scientifically-supported technique that kickstarts your journey towards self-improvement and growth Ever have one of those days where you just feel like a lethargic koala bear, clinging onto the familiar branch of comfort? The strange gravitational pull of the status quo is powerful, and the “unknown” beyond can be a terrifying cosmos of monstrous ‘what ifs’. You wouldn’t be wrong to…

The good life you can energetically shift into from the multiverse — Hello, my soul friends! Today I have a reading about your alternate reality. This is your life in a parallel universe that you can shift to if you raise your vibration. Like attracts like and we’re going to find a way to attract a beautiful alternate reality into being. All…

Some ‘players’ are naturals. Others had to learn how to attract women. Count me in the second category. I spent years approaching women, trying various moves and learning from my mistakes. The lessons from this journey extend way beyond seduction. Here are 8 important lessons I learned about human psychology…

The one you least want on your deathbed. — My friend desperately wanted to quit his job. He hated it, the environment drained him of energy. The people were not his tribe. But he clung to it, afraid to let go of the income, afraid of life on the outside. Just another year, he said. Just another month. Then…

There are few lonelier places for a child to be raised. — Who is the narcissistic parent? You could ask a million adult survivors of these homes this question and get a million different answers. The experience is different for each one of us. However, some threads seem to run through the stories of all adult survivors of narcissistic parents. Specifically, the…