Regret

I may be, probably a lot, very raw and brutal in this letter. Reading this before your 30th birthday could be traumatic. So I will be sure this is not done by destroying this letter. …

One million deaths later, did he mean April 2023? — It’s official. We are over the million dead mark. It never had to be this way, though. We all know this; and yet, those most guilty for leading us to this ignominious mark will blame President Biden for this number. Trump will of course be freed of any and all…

Three reminders to help you live out your values — Trying To Please Everyone Is a Toxic Habit Many people succumb to this habit because they are afraid to disappoint anyone, even weak acquaintances. This feeling is understandable because our DNA is wired for survival. Not pissing off our tribe helped with survival thousands of years ago. Fortunately, we are now more independent creatures who can experience rich…

Regret and looking back. — Have you ever lost the perfect affair partner? The best friend, a great lay, knew how to compartmentalize, sexy as hell, and smart to boot. The “model” lover. The kind that was impossible to replace. Why did you lose them? Because you were too insensitive, too ungrateful, too greedy, too…

I’ve learned that good is very often good enough — There are areas in my life where I want the very best. Food is such an area. I love going to a good restaurant (I’m not writing expensive) and enjoying a good meal with a great conversation. Food and conversation go excellently together. Food, to me, is emotional beyond the…