Second Guessing

Second guessing is a bet against you We do it all the time sometimes out of insecurity but why be first in line to doubt yourself? Buying a lottery ticket is confidence that you’re going to win (and you pay for it) even though the odds are crazy against you. The owners of FanDuel aren’t going broke, they’re betting on a business to get users to lose some of their money. Here’s the sure thing: anything worth you doing is worth you believing in — to do less is to be first to sabotage yourself.

I woke up reflective this morning. My past week flashed through my eyes as I realized how proactive I’ve been about improving my life, and I think I have done well in a short time. With MI Abaga’s ‘Stop! Never second-guess yourself’ playing in the background, and a tweet shot about the importance of not self-rejecting one’s self right on my phone’s screen, it’s like the universe set me up for writing this piece.

Sometimes, in a relationship, you never knew that your partner was gaslighting you and still doing it. It makes you feel like you have lost your mind. But guess what? They are psychos Not You. Psychologists use this term “Gaslighting”, in order to refer a person who would manipulate an…

The Negative Impacts of Second-Guessing I have this friend, and during our two years of friendship, we've grown very close to and fond of each other. The first time I saw this girl was at church and I admired her way of reading in church and behaving. On one Sunday…

You have to be able to third guess for success. Life has changed irrevocably for the immediate future. 3 years or more? …

UPDATE: After building this, I learned more about InertiaJS and realized it’s very similar (plus, it’s way more popular/supported). I’d recommend checking it out. 😉 This all began after reading this article which questions the usage of single-page applications (SPAs) and APIs for the modern web: Second-guessing the modern web The emerging norm for web development is to build a React single-page application, with server rendering. The two key…macwright.org

Me, and messy? — I love mess, it’s mostly because I relate with it. The disorder always calms me down. Yet for some reason, whenever I see a very clean desk with only a few things on it. I do my best, to place them symmetrically , one on top of the other in…

A friend just this evening invited me to a phone call in one week. There are mixed feelings I have about the situation of waiting for him to call. …

I posted last night around midnight, but then I took it down, cause I’m still working on that post. It took about seven hours to write, and I need to flesh out some of the details. It’s about my business back story, for my online marketing stuff. More to come.