Sex Work

…and other things I learned after ten years in the Sugar Bowl. — I was a sugar baby for ten years. It was an experience that was as rewarding as it was eye-opening. You might be thinking, “You’ve probably got some wild stories,” and believe me, I do. But what might surprise you the most is not the extravagant gifts, envelopes of hundred…

Its Probably Not What You Think — Sex work has a reputation as exploitative, and throughout history, I am sure that has often been the case. But it does not always have to be, and in today’s society, while it is still fraught with physical and psychological danger, it can be a positive force in a woman’s…

A Lesson from the Sugar Bowl: Honesty in Relationships — Trust is the silent conductor orchestrating the harmony of sugar relationships. Both parties need to be cautious at first, and each must offer a bit to the other party, and hold what they are given with respect and privacy. First Impressions Trust in a sugar relationship doesn’t just materialize out of thin…

The Tangled Web of Sex Work — These scandalous questions, shrouded in judgment, mask the complex dynamics and multilayered relationships inherent to the world of professional sex work. People are Complex People are complicated beings, and life gets murky. We all carry within us a unique blend of desires, fears, and needs, which tend to lead us…

I regularly receive messages with the general theme of wanting something for nothing. Here is an example. I used to have this awesome pegging thing with my partner. I broke up with them. I can’t afford a pro. Where can I find another person to peg me so that I…

In recent years, discussions surrounding sex work have become more nuanced, challenging long-held assumptions and stereotypes. Traditionally viewed through the lens of victimhood and exploitation, there is a perspective that recognizes sex work as a potentially empowering choice for women. By acknowledging the agency and autonomy of individuals engaged in…

As a former Sugar Baby, I’ve spent years navigating the murky world of sugar relationships. I believe transparency is the best way to demystify this often misunderstood industry. I have never really talked to many people about what I have been doing for the last decade-plus. …

A blog entry about a non-understanding friend and more content creation. — I’m a sex worker. It took me a long time to wrap my head around this. No one in my personal life except Mitchell knows I am doing this because most wouldn’t approve. I know some wouldn’t approve because they’ve shared these feelings with me on more than one occasion. …

My daily life involves giving erotic massages. Any one who has ever been for a massage will know there is a client who receives the massage and there is the active person who does the work. I’m the working in this transaction. A large minority of my clients do this…