It is scary that anyone might still look for Prince (or Princess) Charming (cuz men can be needy “save me, please” messy bun boys) because they’ve always only been fairy tale characters. Better to kiss yourself back to life. Then grown up love can happen. It lasts even after the sparks wear off and is pretty delicious. May all our buns be messy…

I love your writing. It is real, honest, and heart felt. Its unique, unlike anything I have read before. It forces me to slow my mind and life down, and imagine the thoughts that you are painting. . . The verse at the end, I have asked Jesus more than an hundred times about that verse. Why does it promise so much but I feel so little its true meaning…

Thanks for writing this, Anandha.

This is a difficult decision that requires a significant clarity of priorities. Long term happiness and sustainability usually lose out to shorter term financial growth.

It took us a long time before we took the plunge too (although we refer to it as Investment Time…