The modern feminist enemies are unequal expectations of productivity and unequal access to rest. — “I am so exhausted.” “I really need a break.” “Things will calm down soon.” “Hang in there.” These statements are pervasive in my own head and in conversations with my women friends, family, students, clients, and colleagues. High stress, multiple roles, multitasking, overly busy schedules, not enough sleep, exhaustion, and…