Women

[Disclaimer: This is an attempt to declutter my mind space by pouring down some fragmented thoughts. I have no intentions of looping one with another, though a reader may find its strong connecting threads. Few critical thoughts and other rekindled memories have been swirling around my mind for the last…

Sending love to all the different kinds of tummies out there! First of all, I’m not fat. At least I am not considered to be by mainstream norms. My BMI is normal, my clothes size varies between Small and Medium. But I’ve always had a small tummy. Maybe it’s because I’m bloated, maybe it’s because of posture (ever since I know…

So most of you know that when it comes to weight loss it’s 80% about diet 🥗 and 20% workout 🏋🏻 but people still struggle to lose weight 😢. They say that they are eating homemade food only, no fried or junk food 🍔 but still it is what it…

Be careful the energy you send someone’s way. If you’re not careful in your doings, your actions, your own thoughts or deeds, you could fall casualty to that person’s own spiritual Ase’. In this space we call spiritual. There is a thing called, “BIGGER fish.” You might be working that thing, feeding that thing. Praying for it, doing what you gotta do, waiting…

I’ve seen, on TikTok and YouTube, a rise in women talking about raising their standards when it comes to dating. …

Exposing the church’s outdated views on women’s roles — Steam was coming out of my ears, and I was having trouble reigning in my anger. I ranted and raved, ready to eviscerate the one who offended me, my verbal knife poised to disembowel the idiot who had the effrontery, the sheer nerve(!) to make such a ridiculous statement. My…

For too long periods have been a mixture of a taboo subject and a joke. But for women, this is no laughing matter. — “Ignore you’re mum. She’s on the blob.” I watched my mum rushing around the house, trying to keep on top of chores. She was muttering swear words under her breath and ranting about how nobody ever helps her. My mum’s temper was frightening and I could sense her anger was…

She wished she could Giving up also counts as courage, sometimes Quietly scrolling through her phone, Reading stories told by victims; Who embraced their experiences and shared them Comments flooded posts like a flowing river The broken, also encouraged, speaking up She sat sullenly relieving her past- The almost forgotten memories all resurfaced as she read…

It helped me adjust a single-sided perception — We’ve all seen images of the Maasai, one of East Africa’s most distinct tribes. Of the tall, leaping warriors dressed in regal red robes who seem to touch the skies. Or of the Maasai women, tender and earnest, adorned with the most striking neck and ear ornaments. Images like these…