My Favorite Hair Color is Silver

Then I know a woman is at the peak of her beauty

Brian O'Connell
Take My Wife — Please!
3 min readNov 28, 2020

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Susan McGraw (photo courtesy of Heffner Management)

Granted, I had an unusual relationship with my mother which may have formed my attitudes towards women throughout my life. That relationship undoubtedly would provoke moral outrage among the most judgmental of people but the one thing I admire most about that woman is her utter disregard for the opinion of others. It’s an admirable trait to live life as you see fit, not for the approval of others. Women are under far more pressure to adhere to societal norms than men. The male rebel has always been celebrated in films whereas women who veer from the normal are depicted as immoral.

That independence and the ability to say fuck you to others seems to come at a certain age with women, and that’s when they become attractive. That’s also when they start thinking for themselves when it comes to men and realize that perhaps someone younger might be more fun to fuck than someone who has to take a blue pill to get it up.

I really like beautiful women. What I’ve found out is some women actually only really become stunningly attractive when they reach a certain age. Because it was imprinted on me at an early age that older women were more sexually alluring than young girls, I’ve found myself drawn to women who are often decades older than myself.

I prefer women who have silver hair, slim bodies and great legs. A woman of 50 has far more beautiful legs than a woman of 20. They are more defined, and the women themselves are more aware of their attractiveness and can use their sexual allure with confidence. Women over 50 should not be shy about wearing skirts above the knee and showing their stocking tops. It drives men like me crazy.

Laugh lines are a sign of character and they speak of a life lived. I’m not interested in a shallow relationship with a vapid woman. I want to be in love with someone I respect and find physically attractive.

I am not like most men who like to seduce younger women and think about trading in one ageing trophy wife for a younger model. I’ve never had sex with a woman younger than myself and have no desire to do so.

I am not looking for a mother figure. I can handle myself perfectly well in any situation. But I like a woman to have the same attitude towards life that I do. I want to be with someone who is not afraid to tell the rest of the world to fuck off. And who is perfectly happy to have a younger lover and not think it is anything but normal.

There are adjustments any man has to make when having sex with an older woman, particularly if they are going through menopause or are post-menopausal, but that’s not big a deal. The sex can be as wild and erotic as it can be with anyone else but it’s better with age. A woman who is confident in herself knows what she wants sexually and is not afraid to demand it. I love giving pleasure to a woman and I can only do that well if she guides me and tells me how to do it.

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