What’s It Like Being Married to a Slut? This is What It’s Like.
Hotwife. Bisexual swinger. Whore. Kinky bitch. Lauren is all of them. Plus, we’re polyamorous. And it’s fun.
I’m married to a slut and kinky bitch. Lauren fucks a lot of people. But so do I. We’re both sluts because we live the same lifestyle and enjoy lots of sex partners (she has advantage over me since she’s bisexual).
Through our non-monogamous lifestyle — a lifestyle we know isn’t for everyone — we enjoy sex with other women and couples who are like-minded, sensuous, erotic and fun to be around. We’re sluts for other couples and women we want to get to know and fuck.
Society judges people like us. But that’s OK. Like all of the folks in our lifestyle circles, we’re high-functioning, successful, well-educated and upper-income professionals with homes, kids, pets, etc. We happen to enjoy non-monogamy. We’ve told some family members and non-swinger friends about our lifestyle and they’ve been supportive.
Daily Fucking
We fuck every day — the hard, deep kind of sex where Lauren’s face is down on the mattress and her ass is up as I pound the bitch.
Sex is a very strong component — but certainly not the only component — of our marriage.
Sometimes we “make love” and it’s tender and intimate. But, most of the time, we “fuck.” Like most women in our lifestyle, Lauren enjoys getting hammered. Spank her. Stroke her asshole. Bang her while she masturbates her clit. Incorporate vibrators, dildos, anal, etc. Talk dirty to her. Call her a whore, slut, bitch, etc. She likes to call me “daddy.” She wants to be drilled when she’s being fucked. Most women do.
Equitable orgasm practices are a VERY important aspect of our sex life. During sex, I orgasm no more than Lauren does. If anything, she has more orgasms than I do since she can pull off multiples.
Masturbation
A lot of husbands and wives aren’t honest with each other about masturbation…even though virtually EVERYONE self-pleasures.
In our marriage, Lauren and I masturbate alone, sometimes together and sometimes with other women and couples.
For us, masturbation isn’t a substitute for sex; it’s actually an aspect of our personal, marital and swinging sex lives. For Lauren, like almost all women, it’s a vessel for much easier orgasm during intercourse.
Fetishes
Most of us have sexual fetishes, but few of us admit them. Lauren and I are into things that many couples are too shy or too prude to go near. Here’s a list:
- We love all things anal, including anal sex, anal plugs and rimming. Lauren and our polyamorous lover, Piper, both like to be rimmed and to rim each other. And I enjoy rimming both of them and really any hot woman.
- Lauren loves to be spanked (sometimes quite hard) during sex and asked naughty things like, “whose bitch are you?”
- She likes to call me “daddy” during hard, deep intercourse.
- She likes to sometimes be whipped, handcuffed, ball-gagged, etc.
- She enjoys occasional “choking,” which may sound intense but it’s really not.
- She enjoys pleasuring me with a urethral sound now and then.
- She likes to fist and be fisted by Piper, our lover.
- Lauren sometimes massages my prostate.
- The list could go on.
Swinging
We’re honest about what we want. When Lauren and I go to a swingers party or club, our intent is simple: To have really hot sex with others who want the same things we do. In a single night, she’s had more than 10 sex partners (men and women) and I’ve come close to it. It’s no wonder privacy controls are so important.
Through our lifestyle, we’ve engaged in sex acts that could be categorized by holier than thou purity types as extreme and anathema to healthy marriage. We’ve both been in numerous threesomes, foursomes, fivesomes, etc. We’ve swapped with hundreds of married couples. There have been (consensual) “gang bangs.”
Lauren has been double-penetrated (pussy and ass) and even triple-penetrated by multiple guys (she’s actually not crazy about having cocks in her pussy and ass at the same time — not very comfortable). I’ve fucked her in her pussy or ass while she’s blown two guys. She enjoys letting guys take turns on her.
We each have sex with other married couples — always at clubs or private parties — meaning it’s fair to say Lauren hotwifes and I hothusband.
We have female threesome lovers — currently, our threesome lover is Piper.
Teasing
Another thing about Lauren that’s “slutty”: She likes to tease. One way she likes to tease is by showing off her tits with revealing dresses that are low-cut. She got them enhanced from 34C to 34D a few years ago. She just wanted the look, even as I tried to talk her out of it. The enhancement was subtle and her breasts still look fairly natural, though her tits are definitely large for a woman as slender as she is.
Her teasing works. People love to touch them, squeeze them, lick and suck on them. Guys — myself included — love to titty-fuck her and cum on her melons and face….. At lifestyle clubs and parties, Lauren loves to wear dresses that show off her tits.
Another way she likes to tease is not wearing panties. She says going commando is more comfortable and makes her feel sexy. If someone outside of our lifestyle accidentally catches a glimpse of her hoo-ha, she really couldn’t care less — “it’s just a vagina,” as she says. That said, if our son’s friends got a glimpse of her pussy — which I know they’d like — she wouldn’t be OK with that. She knows where and when to tease.
By the way, more and more women are ditching their panties for the commando look and feel.
We’re Polyamorous
We’re polyamorous because it allows Lauren to be bisexual. We’ve been romantically involved with our current, Piper, since 2019.
Piper, age 35, is a professional stage actress and very artsy. She has an amazing singing voice and is a former dancer (no, not that kind of dancer!). She’s incredibly cute (her red hair is adorable), extremely sexual and quite kinky. We love her dearly.
We hook up with Piper typically once or twice per week but she doesn’t go to swingers parties or clubs with us.
One of the perks of a polyamorous marriage: I get to hook up with Piper 1:1 on occasion. She and Lauren hook up 1:1 as well. But most of the time, we enjoy threesome sex.
As Lauren and I like to say, we do what most couples only secretly fantasize about but would never act on. We’re open about our sexual wants and needs and we enjoy exploring those together. We are finding increased tolerance of our lifestyle as we share it with more and more people. But, on the whole, swinging continues to require secrecy because it’s a lifestyle most in our society, though quietly envious of, harsh
